February 2008

 

 
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Tuesday February 26th

Okay folks, its panic time. I just got the official phone call. Our closing for the new house has been scheduled for Wednesday April 2nd!!!! OH LORD HELP ME! What am I going to do? We just reduced the house another $5000 and haven't had a bite in FOREVER! Help me please! Anyone need a starter home? Rental? Anyone want a "fixer upper"? Please please someone buy this house!!!!

Okay, the panic is subsiding. I have no clue what we're going to do, but I can say I'm not going to go crazy just yet. Come April 2nd, if this house isn't sold..., then we'll have a problem. I may just go a little crazy.

So, an update on what's been going on in the Morgan household; Cookie booths began this past weekend but unfortunately, our booths were cancelled at the last minute. I still haven't heard the whole story yet but I know it's going to be a good one. We found out Friday night (our 1st night of booths) that Wal-mart pulled the plug on all sponsorship except the Salvation Army. Us, "little guys" haven't heard the whys yet, we just got an email that said all Wal-Mart booths were cancelled. Sucks, but what can you do? So, we've stocked up on cookies and are waiting for our 6 booths this upcoming weekend. WOO HOO! Unfortunately, a lot of troops are panicking because they really counted on the Wal-Mart's and overstocked themselves with cookies because at a 2 hour booth you could easily sell 150-200 boxes of cookies at Wal-Mart and a lot of these troops picked up 3-5 Wal-Mart shifts. We're all working together to transfer cookies to other troops (for those that need additional cookies) so that the over stocked troops won't lose out on their profits. Hopefully we'll find out soon what happened. Of course, a friend of mine said she was at the Wal-Mart at 103rd this weekend and they were selling. Chris said he spoke with his dad and they were selling down in Hernando - is it just our cluster??? Our area??? Our Wal-Mart??? Ahhh, the saga continues....

The new house is moving along quiet nicely. The cabinets are in and look BEAUTIFUL! The linoleum is in for the kitchen and bathrooms and the bathrooms are just about complete and look beautiful. We do have running water as Chris found out when he stepped into the Master Shower and turned it on... Luckily he didn't get wet but it was a funny moment. I found out tonight that they poured the driveway today and also put the first round of base paint on the house. This is so exciting! Becca and I will run out tomorrow and take some pictures for Chris to put up on the website. I can't wait!

Chris has pounded it into my head over and over to never open unfamiliar emails. I've learned this from him over the years and I've been very good at hitting that delete button, until the other day. As I was cleaning out my yahoo account, I saw this unfamiliar name with the subject noted as "about your dad". It was the strangest thing but for some reason I just couldn't allow myself to hit the delete button. I stewed on it a few days and this past weekend I brought it up to Chris asking how to open an email without worrying about viruses, bugs etc. I know, I'm not very computer savvy and I let Chris make all my decisions on that stuff. So, Chris tells me to go ahead and open it just don't click on links and/or attachments. So, I wait a day or two, still seriously terrified of bugging my computer... I opened it today and WOW! I am so tickled I didn't delete it. The message was from a man who knew my dad back in 73-76 when they were Navy recruiters. He found me through our website and wanted to see if dad was still around. This is way cool. I called my dad and asked him if he remembered this man and dad spent the next few minutes telling me all about his recruiter days. It was neat. So, I emailed the man giving him dad's email address and forwarded the "unfamiliar" email to my dad for him to respond. I don't know what made me pause before deleting this one but I sure am glad I did.

 

 

Friday February 22nd

Warning!!! This entry is full of bitchiness, ranting, raving, temper tantrums and mood swings.....

So, the past 3 weeks have been pure hell. And if this was hell... I don't ever want to go there again. It was no picnic I can tell you that much...

Three weeks ago I caught a simple cold; which turned into the flu. Okay, no problem right? I can handle a little fever, chills, coughing (hacking) and sore throat, sure no problem. After a week of the flu I began to feel better... until the next day (a Sunday) when week two of my pure hell began. I woke feeling nauseous and icky. I drank some hot tea figuring that would help. NOT! That started a wonderful week of puking and other nasty bodily issues. In seven days I was able to keep just 3 meals where they belonged...and that was an effort. During this week of pure misery with the stomach bug, I continued to have a nasty cough. I couldn't get rid of it and of course the coughing did NOT help my upset belly. Did I go to the doctor? NOT! The stress was killing me, my neck & shoulders were constantly in knots, my stomach was aching and very shaky and the rest of me... ahhh, don't ask. So, after a week of this I began to feel better, though I still had issues with some food, I was able to eat this week. Week three begins and I still have the cough, it just won't go away. I ignore it. Four days ago I notice I'm out of breath after just walking to another room, every time I eat, I cough and cough. I ignore it. Three days ago, I notice my chest feels tight, I can't take a deep breath without it killing me, so I take tiny little itty bitty breaths and I'm okay. Hey, I'm fat; I'm out of breath right? Two days ago, I realize I can't lie on my stomach, back, or sides because I CAN'T BREATHE! My chest is killing me and even little breaths hurt. I am out of breath just rolling over in bed. HELLO? FAT GIRL! But even fat girl here shouldn't get out of breath by rolling over in bed right? Yesterday I wake up and can barely talk without running out of breath... OKAY OKAY...you win... I made the phone call. Oh, and along with all of this mess, for the past four days I've had an amazing headache that even overdosing on Advil wouldn't make it go away..... So, I made the phone call and went into the doctor's office today. I walked out with three freaking prescriptions and the threat of bodily harm if I don't return in 2 weeks for a re-check. Let's just say, my blood pressure was 160/95 and it took 2 breathing treatments while sitting in her office and the promise to up my dosage of B/P medicine to be allowed out of her office without the escort of an ambulance. YIKES! She asked when my last asthma attack was... HUH? I've never had asthma, allergies etc... What the heck? Obviously my lungs were pretty clogged up causing my breathing problems AND an hour after I doubled up my dosage of B/P medicine my headache mysteriously disappeared. So, tonight, physically I'm beginning to feel just a touch better. FINALLY>>>>

Now, on to the rest of the drama... Chris and I are bad, bad parents. Instead of scheduling a meeting with the school, we're allowing our 11 year old daughter and her classmates to handle a touchy situation in school. Were very close to breaking down and taking over but still holding out on... maybe this will fix itself.

Becca has just begun her 3rd quarter of 6th grade. She switched classes and is now in a journalism class as one of her electives.  Day one began with her new teacher informing the class that he was a devout Christian and that God is watching them all so they better be good. Okay, a little strange for a teacher to say but...okay... Well, it gets better. One day they began discussing news stories. He asks the children what was "news worthy". Becca politely raises her hand and says that deaths and tragedies were newsworthy. He agreed... BUT.... Informed the children that he thought suicides should NOT be newsworthy because if you sensationalize on it, others may want to do it. Okay... understandable... I guess... BUT THEN... Becca's friend raised her hand and mentioned a family tragedy. Her cousin committed suicide over a fight with her mother. The teacher bluntly informed this 11 year old girl that her cousin was in HELL and that she would never be in the good graces with GOD. WHAT THE?????? Now, Chris and I were ready to run to the school that night but Becca said they could handle it. She'd keep us apprised of the situation but she and her friends would handle it. She immediately emailed her two favorite former teachers and asked their advice. Their advice was... schedule a meeting, get this teacher fired. He's basically lost the kids respect now, as they make fun of him daily. It's terrible. I will say, Becca has told me even the "CHRISTIAN" children were appalled, ARE appalled by his comments. He quotes the bible daily and always makes religious comments... Becca says he only does it when the other teacher is out of the room....Now, On to my thoughts and issues.... Becca is not in a Catholic school. Becca is not in a religious school and is not taking a religious course. God should not be a topic of conversation and these teachers "OPINIONS" should not be stated to the children. He's way out of line and honestly should be reprimanded. Becca had a teacher last quarter that tried to discuss religion and when a child mentioned his religion (I believe was Jewish) this teacher said something to the way of, raise your hand when you want to talk about a serious religion. OUCH! Last I heard there was more than Christianity out there. Granted for the first 32 years of my life that was all I knew but I was NOT JUDGEMENTAL like these teachers seem to be. I spent 13 years in school with no problems having a moment of silence or beginning the day with a short prayer. Hell, I worked for a day care that sang "God our father" before every meal. I have NO PROBLEM WITH THAT... but now a days, if it's not in the curriculum it shouldn't be in the classroom because it's always one sided. Or, if you want to speak it... speak of all of it... Hinduism, Judaism, Pagan, Christian, Catholic, Mormon, etc etc... We're raising Becca to be open minded and to choose her own path. I will not have some bigoted jackass scare her into believing his beliefs. Unfortunately for this guy... the kids have no respect for him and though they do the work, they aren't really "listening" anymore....

And now... another rant...

I've been a Girl Scout Leader for 5 years now and it looks like it's going to be my turn to resign. It's either that or I'm going to have a major "SLAP DOWN" with a mother....I've had enough of rude, ignorant people. I've got a mom right now that is a thorn in my side that just gets more and more infected daily. I'm about ready to scream. She's got a chip on her shoulder the size of a boulder and ohhhh a nasty attitude. She bitches and complains about everything. She hardly ever attends meetings then complains when she and her daughter are left out of the fun stuff. I just sent a long complaint email to my boss, my boss's boss, and her boss's boss. I have had enough. My cookie mom had a screaming match with this woman on the phone tonight and ended up hanging up on her, I had an argument with her and then she had the gall to call me and ask for my co-leaders number. UGH! She makes me so mad. And the worse part of this is that I've known this woman for years... she used to work with me, my mom, dad, brother, sister at the alarm company we worked for. UGH.... Drives me crazy...

I've got more to bitch about but I just can't remember what they are. It's 1:13am and I'm exhausted but it looks like one of the side effects of that nasty medicine is "sleeplessness" and I SOOOO need my sleep after the week of no sleep I've already had to endure.

Oh, yes, now I remember... The house, the house, the house is almost ready. We've got 6 weeks to go and we've just knocked the price down another $5000. PLEASE will someone buy this damn place? We're running out of time and we need this house to sell. Chris got the call Tuesday that the cabinets were going in this week. When the cabinets are in, we've got exactly 6 weeks to go, which happens to be the week Becca will be in Washington, DC. Great huh? I'm so happy, but so worried we won't be able to get the house because this one won't sell. Please let me get my new dream house. I WANT IT!!!!!

By the way... Poor baby Chris was supposed to be home tonight... Unfortunately, he's stuck in Mississippi with the beginnings of the stomach bug I had last week. POOR BABY... I'm so sorry he's miserable and to think, he's just going to get worse before it gets better. I promise to baby him ALL WEEKEND to make him feel better... If he ever comes home...

 

 

 

Tuesday February 12th

 

RIP

Comet - a.k.a Pork Chop

1992-2008

 

My brother just called me to let me know that he had to put Comet (his oldest kitty cat) down. Comet's most recent diagnosis was kidney failure. That, combined with old age and many other issues helped them with the decision to put Comet out of his misery. So, this afternoon they took him to the vet and put him down. It's a sad, sad day today because Comet was a true character.  Jerry is heart broken and he's on his way home now to tell Jeremy what happened. Rest in Peace Pork Chop...

 

 

   
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